Have you ever had one of those moments where you stop and realise you've been moving through your day, perhaps even your life, on a kind of autopilot? It's that feeling of looking in the mirror and wondering where the you inside went. We often mistake our personality for who we truly are. We say "I'm a helper," or "I'm a protector." But there is a quiet, vital difference between our personality, the strategy we've used to navigate the world - and our essence . In my pract